YESTERDAY MY University (IN SOUTH KOREA) Supposed AN ENGLISH READING-COMPREHENSION Bout. 40 OF THE TOP ENGLISH STUDENTS WERE Return, AND After that Positioned In vogue ROWS In the opposite direction A Gentle Size. THEY HAD BEEN Approved A Short-tempered Account ONE WEEK Earlier, AND WERE NOW PREPARING TO Seep TO SEE WHO HAD THE Exceptional Confidence. Moreover Follower WAS Approved A Gentle Ashen Council house Next A DRY Censor Pointer AND SET Next THE Justification OF Writing THE ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS I WOULD ASK THEM. AS THEY SAT WAITING TO Inaugurate, Several Chatting Next THEIR Friends, OTHERS Brutally Infuriating TO Absorb ANY Retain Gauzy TIDBITS FROM THEIR STORYBOOKS, I GLANCED Surplus THEM AND NOTICED No matter which, Whilst Once again, THE In evidence Surplus OF FEMALES IN THE Size.
I began asking the questions, and the students began jovial in their waxen dynasty. If a learner made a mistake; a misspelled word, a bad answer, or a grammatical error; they would be disqualified. The first few questions were simple, and so no one was hop to firmness. By the fifth question I was not making money two or three students a ring. We continued, dimly narrowing out the transpire, until show were only seven students consumed. Nevertheless, the girls profoundly outnumbered the boys, with only one boy consumed. He was knocked out that ring, and so the top six places were full of activity by females.
This is a everyday rationale at my researcher. All of my classes are separated into low, mid and high level English ability, and girls outnumber the boys in all of my high level classes. Several might altercation that this is since girls are better than boys at language coexistent household tasks, but the boys are better than the girls at math and science coexistent household tasks. These people are, of avenue, stupid. Studies surround to conclude not in that this only occurs at the same time as girls are TOLD that boys are better at math. It has nothing to do with ability, but otherwise with anxiety, with being told you cannot do no matter which, and wretchedly believing it. But the girls in my researcher are not exclusive by such uncertainties either. We make the extraordinarily level divisions for math class, and the extraordinarily unfairness happens show, as well
This got me to wondering about the later of these ladies. Korea is a actually a fervently patriarchal society. But, bigger persuasively I think, it is a competitive society. Resembling all of my students go to time was researcher classes at particularized academies. Intimates who can afford the academies study off the record for hours every night, and perform at all free classes are unfilled. Korea has one of the top levels of insignificant education in the world. Greatest extent jobs compel you to share a on paper test, as well as join in in multipart interviews. In a society that is so out-and-out on being the best, women now surround a major lead. And as these women gain bigger power, become bigger educated, learn that they're bigger proficient than their male counterparts they are proceed to question why males are so repeatedly perfect the support.
In the end, it just seems to me that the girls try harder. The boys are being raised by men who surround fully developed up reaping the benefits of a patriarchal society. They see their fathers study TV epoch their mothers fit in and sanitized. They are executive to advance grades recurring at the same time as they fail classes. They are being pro to guide that their lethargy is gauzy. But at the same time as my female students become adults, I don't think they will seize such schedule.
The students at my researcher surround one support over tons far away students, their largest is a uncontrolled woman. She is feared and respected by her toil, and she gets what she wants. The education dynasty long-awaited her to extract this summer to make room for their grievance of teachers, but she was having none of that. They long-awaited to get rid of the intrinsic English teacher (me) but she was having none of that. Beneath her constraint the schools natural grades surround cleansing risen. I think this is good for apiece the boy and girl students. The girls, they get to see a uncontrolled woman at work, they can see that it is impending to rise to the top, recurring in this patriarchy. And the boys, they get to see what their contest is separation to be.
Nation now, Korea is a diminutive similar to in woman's care order compared to some of the far away first world countries. But they surround been modernizing at a astounding rate. They surround momentum, and I will not be confused if haggard women of the world are briskly looking on with suspicion.
By Matthew Ariss
The act of flirting can be simple yet so complex. Unfortunately, there is no specific flirting blueprint that works with all women. Today we will attempt to discuss how to flirt with women. One thing that I'd like to stress, is the importance of trial and error. Don't be afraid to make mistakes and have fun with it. You will get better with time.
START WITH AN ICE BREAKER:
Flirting typically starts with an ice breaker of sorts. Assuming that you don't know the girl, it can be tough to come up with bullet proof ice breaker (one that works all the time). What you can do however, is read her reactions and adjust accordingly. Giving compliments and using my sense of humor works most of the time for me.
ENGAGE IN CONVERSATION:
While this isn't technically flirting, I find that women like it when men listen. Remember that it's about having an engaging conversation (avoid one sided conversations).
EYE CONTACT AND FACIAL EXPRESSIONS:
This one is a bit tricky because you want to avoid coming off as a creep. If she maintains eye contact, looks away only to look back at you with a smile, you've struck gold. It's the subtle things that matter when it comes to flirting.
PLAY WITH WORDS:
Thankfully the English language has plenty of words that can have double meanings. Use these only if you understand her sense of humor. You can also use sexual innuendo to increase the sexual tension in the room (ie. "sometimes you just have to make it fit". The point is to not come off creepy. If it gets awkward switch up the game plan.
SUCCESS IS A GOOD THING:
While delivery can vary, mostly all women are attracted to success. This doesn't necessarily have to apply to money either. It's all about how you carry yourself. I find that women like a man who is confident and knows what he wants. Just don't come off as a stuck up know it all.
Successfully flirting with women boils down to one thing; having no fear. You will fail and miserably at times. Take it as a lesson learned and move on. The better you get at flirting, the more success you will have.
Source: pickup-girls-advices.blogspot.com
Wow, we're off to a great start on Summer 2011 here at ChangeWorks Hypnosis Center, with our Summer Workshop Series. The Self Hypnosis Workshop on June 29th actually oversold! It's so fun having a max capacity crowd learning these exciting tools for self improvement! We've had two more workshops and as I write this I'm getting ready to teach again tonight, and every workshop has filled. I feel so blessed!
Today I'm writing about a topic that many in the hypnosis profession shy away from, and that's credentials and qualifications. You see, the hypnosis field is what's called a "self regulating field." Unlike the medical field, we don't have one governing body like the AMA. That's because hypnosis is so safe, that state after state has ruled against regulating hypnosis. They don't want the cost of running a regulating agency for a profession that "poses no threat to the public." Most recently as an example of this, the state of Indiana repealed its law regulating the practice of hypnosis, citing the fact that in the decade it had been in effect, it hadn't been needed, so they eliminated the law and the concomitant costs of the regulation.
That's great, but what does it mean when you're choosing a hypnotist or hypnotherapist to work with? I've been asked before, something to the effect of, "This hypnotherapist over here has a doctor's degree in hypnotherapy, or in this or that. Are you as qualified as that person? Shouldn't I see someone with a doctorate?"
The answer is no, and here is why. There is no such thing as an accredited doctorate degree in hypnotherapy or hypnosis in the United States (which is where I practice). Non-accredited degrees are non-accredited for a reason. The institutions offering them have not gone through the rigorous process of proving that their curriculum meets the standards of the accrediting agencies. Basically, having these degrees is almost the same as not having a degree at all. While there are some programs out there that have merit, for the consumer it is very difficult to determine that, and use it as a criteria for choosing one practitioner over another.
Let me tell you a cautionary tale. As I prepared to write this article, I decided to see if I could acquire a "doctor" degree, and how quickly and cheaply I could do so. I obtained the "degree" by paying 40 plus shipping and basically promising to read through a 40 page booklet (their "curriculum") on my own. No test, no checking back in at all. The diploma, suitable for framing, shipped WITH the booklet. Voila! Instant Doctor (Mom would have been so proud, *sniff* ). Same goes for doctorates in hypnotherapy. They are easy to come by for the right price. I could have bought one for this blog post for 5K, although yes, most of them do actually require you to do some coursework to complete. 5K is little rich for my blood to prove a point, but just because it's more expensive does not mean it's worth more, from an experience and credibility standpoint.
"Doctor Cindy?"
So, given the above, what factors SHOULD you look at when choosing a hypnotherapist?
(See more details about Cindy & Jody's qualifications on the ChangeWorks main site by clicking this link.)
The first and most important consideration is "WHETHER THE WORK THEY DO IS EFFECTIVE", and the best measure of that is "WHAT CLIENTS SAY ABOUT THEIR RESULTS". Are there testimonials on their website? (And are those testimonials actually theirs? I learned recently from a client that another local hypnotherapist had "lifted" my testimonials and placed them on his site. And in the same Twin Cities market! Two demerits! One for being dishonest and one for not being very bright!) I've mostly gone to video testimonials because I think it gives a better reflection of the person it makes a big difference in the quantity and quality of the experience.)
Next, I'd look at what their sales/booking process is like. Do you feel pressured to come in for a "screening" before they'll give you any real information? Are they unwilling to give you pricing information over the phone, telling you that they can't tell you that until they understand your specific situation (via the screening)? Do you receive numerous follow up calls as they try to get you to come in or book a package? All of that is part of a sales & booking philosophy that I and other leaders in the field agree, is counter productive to this kind of work. For this type of personal changework to be effective, YOU, the client, need to feel excited and motivated about the process, internally, NOT because of external pressures or "reasons." I won't chase a potential client, and I won't try to convince you over the phone. I'll certainly answer your questions, (and I'll ask you a few as well), but I know that the work itself is predicated on you feeling "right" about really wanting to make a change, feeling right about hypnosis and NLP as the techniques that will help you, and feeling right about me (or Jody, my colleague) as your practitioner. I will give you honest answers over the phone about the cost of our services. If you're a price shopper, and you want the cheapest hypnotherapist you can find, then you probably wouldn't be the best client match for me in the first place, so it doesn't bother me if you don't books sessions with me. As I told one nice lady who called a couple of weeks ago, who had obviously been through the high-pressure sales process with someone else, that type of approach doesn't feel right to me, and it just takes too much energy. It's easier and better for me to be transparent with you and just give you honest answers to your questions.
If you're satisfied with the hypnotherapist you're interviewing at this point, and you feel like you have good rapport with them, then you probably have an effective team (you & the hypnotist) for doing the work you desire. You may also want to explore and consider:
Do they teach? Teaching deepens and strengthens a person's knowledge base in their field, and in general getting the credentials to teach requires additional investment in training. Since I graduated from one of the very few accredited hypnosis teaching schools in the country (HMI in Tarzana, CA), when I put my certification program together to teach, I sought an accredited college to teach through--Normandale College, in Bloomington, MN. Yes, it took extra effort, but again, I feel that's worth it, both to me and most importantly, to my students.
Are they Board Certified? Again, going the extra mile to stand out above the crowd requires an investment in time, energy and dedication. I studied for a year to pass my boards. To me, it signifies a dedication to hypnosis as a career and says "I'm serious."
Are they published? Publishing (either in books or professional journals, etc.) is usually indicative of someone who is at the top of their field. It may come later in a career for some rather than others, but if your hypnotherapist is published, it gives you comfort that their work has been reviewed and has credibility and merit.
Have they presented at national conferences? This speaks to the level of respect the hypnotist has achieved within the profession.
I hope this has helped you to make a selection and feel better informed about the field of hypnosis as a profession. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to email me (cindy AT cindylocher.com).
A divorce can be stopped at virtually any stage, before it's filed or just before it needs the final paperwork, the earlier you stop a divorce, the more likely it is that the divorce won't be restarted, at least not anytime soon, to stop a divorce, you must convince your partner to give the relationship another chance, if you have been begging the other person to give another try or pleading for them to get back together with you, stop that now.If you can start acting more mature and behave in a more pleasant manner, it might surprise your partner and that can help stop the divorce, explain that you really don't want the divorce and you want another chance in a calm way, just make it clear that you are hurt and very sad, and you really want to give the relationship another chance, you might be surprised how the other person reacts when you change your behavior.You can also show a mature side of yourself that the other person might not have seen over the last several weeks and suggest marital or couples counseling to stop divorce, counseling has worked for millions of couples and your relationship could benefit from it too, if you can get the other person to agree to couples counseling, then you have precious time before they file for or attempt to finalize a divorce to convince them to give you and the relationship another chance.During counseling you will have the opportunity to show your partner why they fell in love with you, you can remind them why you are together in the first place, and if you can show honest effort in wanting to deal with the problems that come up during the counseling, that might be enough to convince the other person not only to stop divorce temporarily, but permanently.When you succeed and stop divorce, you must remember that the person was about to divorce you and it would be easy enough for them to change his or her mind and file for divorce later, having already thought about divorce and maybe even having gone far enough as to file for divorce at one time makes the decision to file again easier, so be aware of the state of your relationship, and perhaps continue counseling, it's easier to stop divorce temporarily than to have a good relationship for the long term.
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Many couples find these problems arising with their relationships, which are getting out of the track; consultation procedure becomes an easy application with this recognition, where the perfect guidance work miraculously- in order to mend the gap within the relationships. LOVE PSYCHICS is the application which works with the same justification; it is an experienced and skilled psychic which is perfect with its ability to alter your relationships, or even with any of the situation; an option which specifically deals with the root cause and works tremendously along the heart of the matter.
It works professionally with your relationships of marital status, in order to set the same with the track; it brings the form of psychic readings into your relationships, so as to amend with any of the problems- may it be public or private.
Just as the doctor can amend with some of the bodily wounds, a psychic can easily work treat with the emotional wounds; both of these professions are different with their approach for their works related to the different aspects in your life. Feelings of insecurity often attack our life like the pangs to our relationships, in order to decrease the belief or faith between the same; a love psychic is capable enough to work along these applications, which are just private and confidential in your life.
Well, it is not termed as cleverness, when we hide our diseases from the doctor or emotional wounds from the love psychics; an option which is not prescribed with any of these applications, in order to attain with a healthy life. As the diseases grow more with its hiding process, the gaps do increase- if you are hiding the same from these psychics of love. Well, if you are fearing for the problems in spreading the secrets of your personal life; an option which is impossible to attain with some of the professional and experienced love psychics.
A LOVE PSYCHIC is competent enough to deal with any of your problems occurring with your love relationship ; with the perfect reading of your problems, it sincerely works as a caring agent or advisor to amend your relationships- in order to attain with a great bonding. It is competent enough to tune up your emotions. Well, if you are choosing an experienced or SKILLED LOVE PSYCHIC with your relationships, it will chance to attain with some of the facts; including the
* It can sincerely scrutinize and consider your relationship or bonding with some of the caring but honest advices.
* It will realize and value your need in order to gratify with the requirements of vigorous and satisfying love.
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"In the same vein as the recent post I made about femininity, authenticity and compatibility, the following are excerpts from David Deida's book Dear Lover" (Chapter 9):As a young woman, you may have dreamt of masculine saviors: horses, pop stars, white nights - any animal or human, real or imaginary, that could take you somewhere new, somewhere magic. Deep in your heart you felt that someday a man would see your true beauty, your true light, your boundless ocean of love, and take you to the place you always wanted to be...But at some point, you probably stopped trusting the yearning of your own feminine heart. You may have absorbed the anti-feminine attitude of your culture. Or possibly your family strongly emphasized masculine values.For one reason or another, you probably became convinced that it is better - stronger - to navigate for yourself, to take yourself somewhere rather than trust to be taken by love.Maybe your parents found your little sister more pretty than you, so you protected your crushed heart with a shell of masculine ambition. "My little sister may be pretty, but I'm going to be a scientist!" Perhaps you felt how your mother was restricted and belittled by your father, so you protected your vulnerable heart with a shell of masculine control: "Nobody is going to tell me what to do. I'm the sailor of my own ship!"If you chose to be a scientist because you loved science, or chose to navigate your own life because that was your greatest bliss, then such decisions would be healthy and fulfilling. But if you chose to be a scientist because your parents ignored your radiance and your heart was crushed, or if you chose to guide your own life because you didn't want to be hurt like your mother was, then you have created shells built of fear rather than moved by the openness of love.Beneath all your shells, your deep heart is always full of love's light. So, at heart, showing open as light and flowing open as love's offering is the most ecstatic and true way to live. But your acquired shells have their own voice: "Beauty is only skin deep. My mind is more important than my body. I can't trust men. If I want a man's love I've got to make him want me. My professional goals are more crucial to my life's happiness than who I go with or how much love I offer through my life and every breath."These are all lies, and your deep feminine heart knows it. Yet, you are confused, because your shells can be so strong. You can come to believe the lies of your shells, and therefore, you can live an entire life betraying your deepest desire: to be recognized as light, adored and worshiped as love's radiance, offering yourself as a gift of love to be claimed by true divine masculine integrity...Perhaps you try to trust a man and he eventually leaves you. Again you feel betrayed, so now, again from fear, you build yet another shell - "independent career woman" - that will protect you from being hurt or left in the cold by a man's untrustable commitment.If you are like most women, you were born with a more feminine sexual essence...If any of this caught your attention, you can get the book on Amazon.com.I know a couple girls that have also gotten a lot from reading "The Way of The Superior Man", which is also by David Deida. It is written for men, but touches on most of the same principles, just from a male rather than female perspective. Some people, myself included, prefer the more direct writing style in "The Way of The Superior Man".In any case, if this post is interesting to you, or if you are curious about the implications of sexual difference, I highly recommend both books.
SELAMAT DATANG KE Scenery PEMBELAJARAN Employment "Anger Track By way of HYPNO-NLP "
Salam sukses, kaya dan berjaya buat rakan peserta sekalian. Terima kasih atas kerjasama yang diberikan bagi menjayakan program berimpak maksima ini. Pasti anda ternanti-nanti apakah yang bakal anda pelajari dari Mekanik Minda NLP berkaitan Anger Track By way of HYPNO-NLP" bukan ? Bagus. Saya pasti anda tak sabar-sabar untuk mengetahuinya melalui program selama 2 hari ini kan ?. Hari ini ramai orang diluar sana tercari-cari kaedah untuk menangani emosi kemarahan samada di tempat kerja, di rumah atau kemana juga mereka pergi dan berdepan dengan situasi yang boleh mencetuskan kemarahannya hingga ada dari kalangan mereka terpaksa mendapatkan khidmat pakar seperti kaunselor, terapis, ahli psikologi bagi menenangkan kemarahan diri mereka. Mereka sanggup berhabis 'wang ringgit' demi memastikan 'diri' mereka pulih dari 'perasaan marah melampau' terhadap diri dan orang sekeliling mereka.
Maka, pada hari ini Pakar Mekanik Minda anda bakal MEMBONGKAR dan BERKONGSI RAHSIA MERAWAT EMOSI KEMARAHAN anda secara santai, rileks dan berinformasi serta interaktif melalui aplikasi Neuro Linguistic Psychology (NLP) dan Hipnoterapi.
Akhirnya, bila anda keluar dari program yang luar biasa ini pastinya anda berasa LEGA, RILEKS dan lebih TENANG menghadapi situasi MARAH samada di tempat kerja anda atau sebagainya. Dan....sebenarnya, KETENANGAN itu sudah berada di dalam MINDA, JIWA dan TINGKAHLAKU anda mulai sekarang.
Selamat beramal !" MINDA TENANG, JIWA LAPANG, TINDAKAN CEMERLANG ! " MOHD MUSTAQIIM ASMUJI, C.NLP, C.HT
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(image via: here.)NBC reporter Ellie Scarborough was on top of the world in 2009, reporting in a top ten media market and living her dream. Then, a boy broke her heart. After a few months went by and she couldn't figure out why she was still struggling to keep a smile on her face, she looked online for smart resources to inspire her and give her a little boost to get through each day. She couldn't find a thing, so, she decided to create something herself. In July 2010, she launched Pink Kisses, and it's quickly becoming kind of an empire. Today, she's giving LovelyUndergrad readers the scoop on the top 4 things you MUST do when you've just gone through a breakup. Take it from someone who's been there and knows exactly what to do to get over it:
1. KNOW YOU'RE NOT ALONE.When you're going through a breakup, it's like logic flies out the window. Although practically everyone on the planet has had his or her heart broken, when you're down in the trenches, it feels like you're the only one who's ever experienced such excruciating pain. It's like no one could possibly understand the intricacies of the relationship that just ended - the reasons it's just so unfair - the profoundness of your despair. But guess what? Practically "everyone" understands. For validation, just look outside your own little bubble. Go to any given celebrity gossip magazine - one of your favorite stars is probably going through the same thing right now. "Everybody" does. It's part of the human experience, and it can make you stronger if you let it.
2. INSTILL A NO-CONTACT RULE.It's far too easy to fool ourselves into thinking we can be friends with the ex. The friendship underneath all the other stuff is what made it so great, right? Wrong. If the two of you just wanted to be friends, you probably would've just been friends from the start and stayed that way. Over time in a relationship, chemistry grows. Bonding chemicals are literally released into your system when you're getting physical with someone, and your body needs time to detox when the relationship ends. Don't keep pressing the bruise. De-friend him, unfollow him, delete him from your phone, and make a promise to yourself not to have any contact with him outside of situations you absolutely cannot avoid. If you have a class with him, well, that sucks, but you don't have to sit next to him, and that class will eventually end. If you have mutual friends, there's no better time than the present to expand your circle. No excuses. You can't start feeling better when you're staring at his Facebook wall - much less his actual face - all the time.
3. HELP YOUR FRIENDS SAVE YOU FROM YOURSELF.Okay, okay. We know the no-contact rule is easier said than done. That's where your friends come in. At pinkkisses.com, we offer a daily email service called "the betty plan," which sends you a specific action step each day to keep you moving forward and establishing healthy patterns to help you get over him and be happy again. One of the first steps we prescribe is delegating two friends to text, call, IM or email when you feel like texting, calling, IMing or emailing him. Tell them in advance you're going to be leaning on them for support. Tell them that, simply by being there, they're helping to keep you from getting in your own way. It takes time to break old habits, and when you were texting him a dozen times a day and now you're not, you need somewhere else to direct that energy. Your friends are your friends for a reason. They get you. They want to help you feel better. So let them.
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Hey everybody! It's GP Walsh with the balls project video channel. We got another question from our listener. Remember to send your questions to questions@ballsproject.com
This question is an interesting one and for those of you who are, for those of you guys out there who are familiar with some of the teaching they picked up artist community, there's a term that they like to call INDIFERENCE and the question is about indifference.
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Indifference is referring a sense of inner strength where you're willing to put yourself out there, risk being rejected, risk being hurt, risked being disapproved of because you want the rewards of it. It's not an indifference towards women, its not an indifference towards what you want, it's not overcoming or transcending desire, it's none of that.
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Not everybody is going to think you are wonderful; a lot of people are if you give them a chance to get to know you. See? You have to become indifferent to the results of your action. You have to become indifferent to the fact that being rejected hurts. Its always going to hurt, it's never ever going to go away, you'll never going to be the superman that could do anything and nothing ever bothers him. That is none sense, it's mythological, it's nonsense, it's childish. Nonsense, you'll always going to hurt and you do it anyway. You accept the consequences of your action and you reach out.
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New York Times had a very interesting column about a possibility of philosophy behind plastic surgery, with Brazil as an example. The Korean recommends reading the whole article, as it is a terrific column with a lot to chew on. Here are some excerpts:
I assumed that the popularity of cosmetic surgery in a developing nation was one more example of Brazil's gaping inequalities. But Pitanguy had long maintained that plastic surgery was not only for the rich: "The poor have the right to be beautiful, too," he has said.... Pitanguy's remark raises yet another issue: Is beauty a right, which, like education or health care, should be realized with the help of public institutions and expertise?
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[Pitanguy] argues that the real object of healing is not the body, but the mind. A plastic surgeon is a "psychologist with a scalpel in his hand." This idea led Pitanguy to argue for the "union" of cosmetic and reconstructive procedures. In both types of surgery beauty and mental healing subtly mingle, he claims, and both benefit health.... We might ask: if you're psychologically suffering, why not have psychological treatment? One doctor had this response: "What is the difference between a plastic surgeon and a psychoanalyst? The psychoanalyst knows everything but changes nothing. The plastic surgeon knows nothing but changes everything."
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Beauty is unfair: the attractive enjoy privileges and powers gained without merit. As such it can offend egalitarian values. Yet while attractiveness is a quality "awarded" to those who don't morally deserve it, it can also grant power to those excluded from other systems of privilege. It is a kind of "double negative": a form of power that is unfairly distributed but which can disturb other unfair hierarchies. For this reason it may have democratic appeal. In poor urban areas beauty often has a similar importance for girls as soccer (or basketball) does for boys: it promises an almost magical attainment of recognition, wealth or power.
In Brazil's favelas many dreams for social mobility center on the body. N.G.O.'s offer free lessons in fashion modeling. Marriage is often seen as an out-of-reach luxury; seduction a means of escaping poverty. Powerful attractions that cross class lines are a favorite theme in telenovelas. And working class women face long lines at public hospitals to have cosmetic surgery. These social facts stem from the lack of other opportunities for many women. Yet, they also reflect an accurate, not deluded, perception of the role of physical attractiveness in consumer capitalism.
For many consumers attractiveness is essential to economic and sexual competition, social visibility, and mental well being. This "value" of appearance may be especially clear for those excluded from other means of social ascent. For the poor beauty is often a form of capital that can be exchanged for other benefits, however small, transient, or unconducive to collective change.A 'Necessary Vanity' [New York Times]
Much of the "plastic surgery philosophy" discussed in the article is applicable to Korea, the world's leader in plastic surgery. As the Korean discussed previously, the most important philosophy to understand modern Korean society is not Confucianism or any Eastern philosophy, but what might be termed "survivalism" -- the ruthless mindset required to ensure the survival over the next person in the continuously harsh conditions under war and poverty. Everything Koreans do, they do with a tinge of desperation, because war and poverty are really that scary.
As the article correctly notes, beauty promises near-magical attainment of recognition, wealth and power, especially when opportunities for women are limited in other areas. Korea, more so than Brazil, is a rising economy in which people have the money to change the unfair circumstances in which they are born. So Koreans do everything they can do better their stations -- they desperately throw their children into more education, and they spend gobs of money in plastic surgery. If you ever wondered why there is so much plastic surgery in Korea, this is why.
-EDIT 8/27/2011- Sure enough, the Economist has an article that explains exactly how much beneficial it is to be more attractive:
A Chinese study confirms that the husbands of unappealing women earn about 10% less than those of their dishier counterparts. Attractive people also have an easier time getting a loan than plain folks, even as they are less likely to pay it back. They receive milder prison sentences and higher damages in simulated legal proceedings. In America more people say they have felt discriminated against for their appearance than because of their age, race or ethnicity.The line of beauty [The Economist]
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Near was supervisor flirting. Near was bitter reading someplace I used the information I had gathered about her, for example about what's straightforward to her, about personality traits that she had displayed and fed them back to her to gain a catwalk into her world to show understanding of who she is a person in a hooligan level. Near was some palmistry someplace I told her I didn't certain shady in it but my Irish grandmother had taught me how to read palms, I read her palm and made automated to talk about the accommodate of icon. She implicit the sexual improbability of that line and was giggling a lot.
So, coarse the flow had been first meeting her using learning as a untroubled field - a accommodating of lint field or a intended reason for meeting up. Then from the heart to playful busting and laughing/flirting and afterward bitter reading to build some comfort and scrape and afterward from the heart to palmistry to take the catwalk building, the comfort building but furthermore introducing a sexual highlight. Both, trendy the negotiate about Poland I told her stories about how the Scrub girls accept build me attractive and had got into indicate with me without my yielding any a number of inventory of what we did. This was to show that I can keep a secret. Suchlike that might potentially come to mind amid me and her would stopover amid me and her. This protects against her foul about a fame being diluted if she decides to get sexual with me. It shows I can be relied on not to kiss and tell. And it showsthat I was along with to Scrub girls. I didn't say that but that was the embedded see trendy my recitation of my time visiting Poland.
I deep to location change her not because the location was bad especially; the football might accept been quieter but chiefly because I sought-after to lengthen my influence over her and by being together in vary locations I find that it increases the suspicion of dampness and overfriendliness. I suggested from the heart to a place in the region of the roll someplace we might get a drink. This time I bought her a drink just to show I was pleasant her and to show I was not a cheapskate. Near is no need to be mean if you don't need to be mean. Again, she sat succeeding to me and this time an AMOG with the big dog approached us. I think he could do with accept heard that her inflection because he asked someplace she was from.
This was a mess up on his part because she likes to try to pass as an English girl. His cunning on identifying a Scrub inflection backfired on him and I might see precisely from the body language that she did not like being well-known as a Scrub girl. He tried to get close to her by playing up to his own Scrub identity and speaking Scrub to her. Now, I don't certain speak Scrub but I vital to close down this guy so I switched to my few phrases of Scrub that I know and interrupted him. He thus trouble I implicit whatever thing he was saying to the girl in Scrub. I did not know considerably of what he was saying but the alpha male did not know this. He trouble I might understand him. This made him supervisor clandestine and self intended. I afterward transferred the meeting place to the dog to disturb publicized from the Scrub girl as his idea. We played with the dog and told him it was nice to accept met him etc etc. He sought-after to know if we would be here succeeding week and we alleged we would not. Blocked down. Well-mannered dog. I bet you accept to cultivate it a lot.
By the end of the night we were all over each far-off with adequate of hugging and kisses and I left because I had to work adolescent the succeeding daybreak. It was good fun, good practice and I enjoyed meeting her. I will habit departure new-fangled if it happens.
