At the end of the day, there are no absolutes. Like I mentioned in my book 'LESSONS FROM 15,000 FIRST DATES', 'Strange as it sounds, the reality is that plain Janes sometimes have it better.' This is based on the premise that most plain Janes I have met are more realistic, reasonable and are more willing to compromise. Having said that, I have also met Plain Janes who are unwilling to compromise and I have met beautiful women who after a lot of experiences who are willing to compromise. Hence, the same applies to average Joes. There are average Joes that are realistic, reasonable, down-to-earth set of dating criteria and are more willing to compromise. At the same time, there are also average Joes who told me, "Violet, I know I am a 5, and I know you are matching me with a 5. But I want to be matched with a 10!" Some men who are gorgeous and know it and when coupled with financial stability would sometimes suffer from what I call the 'elevator syndrome'. When the go to the first floor, they met someone who's pretty. They then wonder to themselves, I wonder if someone on the second floor would even be better. I want someone who's pretty and smart. And there she was at the second floor. Then they would wonder if they can meet someone even 'better' on the third floor e.g. pretty, smart and curvy. So on and so forth. As compared to the average Joes, who might know that they are not as good-looking or as suave or as confident, and are simply on the lookout for a kind and nurturing woman who would make a good wife. And once they have met her, they are more likely to settle down. Men and women are different and hence when it comes to dating criteria, they are also looking out for different things. Just like some men will put women into two categories when it comes to dating and relationship i.e. the 'wife material a.k.a. they will bring home to see mum type' and the 'short fling type', often some women will also put men into two categories - 'the provider' and 'the player'. Having said that, there are average Joes who are average in their looks but have honed their 'player' skills and are able to attract women to them like bees to honey because they just know how to push the right buttons. There are also gorgeous hunks who are actually very down-to-earth and is a total sweetheart when it comes to love and is also a perfect gentleman. 'Players' need not necessarily be gorgeous hunks. Sometimes, they just portray a sense of coolness, a sense of confidence or even a sense of danger that appeal to women. They seem so in control and they just know what to say and do at the right time. And thus, women tend to be more attracted to 'the player' than 'the provider'. Many a times, women would go for 'the player' to only get burnt at the end of the day because 'the player' does not tend to want to settle down because he knows that he has a huge following and know he just know what to do to make girls fall for him. And thus, eventually women learn to see beyond the facade and to look out for things that matter - dependability, loyalty, sense of responsibility - criteria that would make a good companion, a good husband and a good father. Many of these characteristics actually describe 'the provider'. I think ultimately, if we are talking about having and sustaining a long term relationship, 'the provider' (which most of the time would be the dating strategy of the average Joes) will be the one who is the ultimate winner as compared to 'the player' who seems to get all the girls in the beginning. 'The player' will be the biggest loser because he will never be able to sustain a long term relationship even though he seems to be the one having all the fun at first. When men are looking for the right one, looks and physical appearances tend to rank high because most men are very visual. However, when women are looking for the right one, they tend to take a more overall approach. I am not saying that looks are not important to all women. However, most women also look out for other things such as financial stability, sense of humour, confidence etc. other than looks before they judge whether to take the relationship to the next level. Thus, looks is not the only thing that women are looking for. Of course, there are also women who shun gorgeous men. There are some lady clients that I have met who will say that, "Violet, please don't introduce me to someone who's too good-looking!" I think, in their mind, they are thinking that women will always be attracted to good-looking men and they do not want to have unnecessary competition in future. But having said that, there are also women who say to me, "Violet, make sure you pick the best looking man for me, ok?" However, I would have to say, there are more women saying, "Violet, make sure you find me a good man who's kind, confident and humorous!" rather than "Make sure you find me a good-looking man!" WHAT DO YOU THINK? DO YOU THINK GORGEOUS HUNKS HAVE IT BETTER? OR AVERAGE JOES? SHARE WITH US YOUR COMMENTS!Share on FacebookVIOLET LIM VIOLET LIM is a real-life modern matchmaker who has founded Asia's leading lunch dating company Lunch Actually (www.lunchactually.com). Violet is the bestselling author of the dating book 'Lessons From 15,000 First Dates'. She is also an acknowledged dating and relationship expert who has been featured on more than 1000 media coverage including ABC News 20/20, Bloomberg, CNBC Asia, CNN Go, Channel News Asia, USA Today, TV Tokyo and Singapore's National Day Video 2005 as one of Singapore's most aspiring people. Violet is happily married to her university sweetheart Jamie and they have two young children. More Posts - Website RELATED POSTS: *
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Being able to stay at a high level of performance on a continuing basis is difficult for the majority of the population. It's important to have the right mindset in order to stay at a high level of living day in and day out. There are certain mental techniques that you can use. 1. Make sure you are keeping yourself fit. Get out and exercise. This will enable you to deal with both mental and physical stress that may come your way. 2. Eat high quality foods. By eating right and healthy, your body will get the proper nutrients for physical and mental health. 3. Do deep breathing. Our blood supply needs constant oxygen that will energize our bodies and minds. This will insure that our bodies get the energy it needs and keep our lungs healthy too. 4. Do mental training. Meditation and self-hypnosis as well as visualization help to calm a stressed mind and to develop focus and awareness. The more you're able to train your mind on a regular basis, the easier it will be to access that calm state whenever you need it. 5. Stay optimistic. Having a positive mindset is important for continued high level performance. Being around positive people will help you too. 6. Have positive goals. Having goals that you can stay focused on will help you stay focused on the task at hand and provide a target to aim for. 7. Do some extreme self-care. Taking care of you first is important for recovery. You've done some of it in the other steps. It's important to take some down time. This recovery period will help raise your performance level when you are taking action. (c) 2011 by Bob Choat About the Author: Bob Choat, MS, CH.t., CTNLP, NASM-CPT does Peak Performance Coaching Training and also works as personal trainer in Southern California. His training in hypnosis, psychology, and fitness enables him to best help in both mind and body towards complete fitness. He has a Masters in Psychology and degrees in business and leadership. He also completed leadership training from Rapport Leadership International and the U.S. Marines. www.HypnoMindPower.com
Online dating scams are everything that are occurrence all the time. I would say that maximum weeks I clear emails from a person who is establishment with a scam, dolefully it's commonly as soon as they've previous to sent wake to the scammer. In the aforementioned whenever you like I wrote on identifying online dating scammers, I commonly convincing on the fact that scammers would ask for wake. My advice, which I still protection, is that if a person asks you for wake feathers an online dating service afterward you prerequisite "very soon" touch you're establishment with a scammer. Yes, without delay if you've been talking for months on the dating site. Measure people fjord to be learning that desires for wake on an online dating service are a bad sign, the scammers are in addition learning new ways to make a safe. Robin wrote in to talk about scams she's been seeing a moment ago. Hip are her thoughts:Best an idea to deepen your scams treatise in your guide to the same extent I've had promote than a couple men way this especially scam. This one is rather wily, but the cut & divide seems to get used a lot with it and exactly becomes boring. Initially, the guy seems to system some list of questions to ask, waits for response from me, afterward plunks down his response to his own question repeatedlyvery predictable. Along with, if I've managed to get feathers this go, he'll start inching the scam. The seam intention into is he's in Afghanistan, a fighter (oh, not to forget he's ration the orphans) and the camp got hit by terrorists and some of his men died. The induce into is that wake isn't asked for, but a Dexterity Small package of requested luggage that will unaffectedly card two or three excessive (laptops, iPods, iPads, cell phones, prosperity of darling clothes like ten trousers, etc). Following the terrorist go on a go-slow, personal sound effects were unusable, so the scammer Requests to move these substance for him and his boys. Of move forward, I declined to force a care divide and whenever you like I declined, I was brusque told that, "You're a shrivel of my time cuz you don't support your troops." Gosh, gee nip. Inexperienced good one was a guy claiming to be a fighter, but he couldn't tell me anything about his work or himself the same as it was clandestine. I didn't assault contract killing my time with this one. I think it was good that Robin points this out: it's not that scammers are just persons who ask for wake. It's persons who ask for anything of cherish at all. Measure some armed forces do help redirect scamming, such as the way eHarmony works, it's perhaps still best to chronicle that avoiding people who are asking for "stuff" is the first step in a good strategy to throw cushion yourself. Tenderly, before long as soon as Robin had sent me her experience on this I got numerous email from a woman who had been scammed. In her case, the guy didn't ask for wake. He claimed to be over-involved in Africa and asked her to force him an unopened cell phone and a football pullover. As odd as that may well fjord to you and me (and you may well be saying you'd never fall for it), it still happens. The scammers can be very acute in communicating with their targets and sometimes we want to protection everything so eagerly, like true love, that we stop nosy what we're being asked to do. So be anodyne with being asking for anything! Image by TaxCredits.net via Flickr Applicable posts: * Online Dating Scams: The Romance Secret * Online Dating Scams: Secondary Scams * Online Dating Scams Smooth Fooling Numerous Singles
"Girl, I wouldn't even put up with that mess."
You've heard it before and most likely have said it on an occasion or two. Well, I have learned that if you live long enough, life will make you recall that statement. Life sure caught up with me and I have had to recall and eat many statements that came out of my mouth in my younger, more carefree days.
Older folks would say, "She's just wet behind the ears". I never really understood what that meant. But I was wet all right... more like saturated.
Thinking back, I can remember listening to a girlfriend rant about what her husband did and how stupid she was for staying. Tears rolled down her face as she sobbed uncontrollably. She needed support; her heart was heavy.
"But I Love him" she said while she blew her nose.
All I could think of was, "Love don't got jack to do with it"
Today, I've had to kick myself on a few occasions. Today...I am a different person.
It was a humid, sticky mid August afternoon in 2005...a typical normal, hot August afternoon. But normal it was not. At least it wasn't for me. My life would never be the same.
Looking at the summons for my husband to appear before the judge for child support was more than I could handle at that time. We, as a team had just gotten caught up on our bills since his return home 7 months prior. To say it was a testing period for me was an understatement. The saying goes; If it's not one thing it's another. For me it went like this; If it's not 5 things it's 25 things. This was so relevant for my life.
There were days I would just literally scream and cry. It was as if the enemy had just zoomed in on me and I was his target for things I couldn't even begin to explain. But it was evident: I was chosen to carry many, many crosses. Some crosses didn't even belong to me. I had to send those back. The ones that were not mine had to get a RETURN TO SENDER stamp.
On this day, I looked at the summons and the name of the child that the support was being requested for. My breath became very short and at that moment, I needed air. It seemed like the room started to spin. My eyes began to fill with tears, my heart felt as if it was going to jump out of my chest. My knees buckled. I had to sit down.
I was all alone.
After I found a chair, my stomach started to turn and dizziness came over me like a rushing wind.
The enemy wanted me to lose my mind.
"How?"Why?" These were the questions that began to surface in my mind.
It was bad enough to have a baby by a married man but to name the child after him was inexcusable to me. A junior? I would never do that. That to me was just mean. This was beyond my comprehension. I guess because I think differently.
I dialed my Pastor's phone number. No answer - just voicemail. I dialed my 1st Lady. She answered. She knew who I was from the caller id. It was as if the words would not come out.
"Nicole" Silence. I couldn't answer. I was in between sobs. "Nicole" The words finally came out but they were muffled. I began to blurt out what just happened.
"My God," was her first response. "Okay, now let's get it together," was her second.
She was not having the pity party thing. For one thing - I was too far away from her (as my church is over 90 miles from my house). Second - she knew my potential. It's a blessing to have mentors around you that see where you're going before you see it or believe it. Our Pastors were sent to us for what we have had to endure. Pastors Clifton & Vicki Coward of Agape International Ministries Worldwide in Richmond, Virginia have been that bridge for us.
Pastor Vicki went on to encourage me and give me what the word has promised me.
Then, I called my girlfriend Lena. I remember the day like it was yesterday. Summons in one hand, phone in another, and standing outside on our deck. I was pacing back and forth at this time. She immediately began to pray. She was at Farm Fresh at the time. A few weeks later, she told me she was praying so loudly in the store that she had to go outside before the people put her out. (LOL)
For over a year I would not talk about it. I couldn't. I would literally get sick just thinking about it. The pain was so deep...it was like an open wound that would try to close but couldn't. As soon as I thought I was all healed, something would happen and those feelings would resurface and the tears would start flowing. Even my heart would begin the racing all over again. Panic and anxiety, were the twins out to get me. Sometimes I would think, "This is just too much for me to handle." But the word of God says he would not put more on me than I can bear.
The child support was a subject by itself. Our household went without on many occasions because of the child support. At times, I thought it was so unfair. My children went without. That by itself really bothered me. But I would never voice it aloud. We as wives have the power to build up or tear down. It's our choice. I knew what it was when I accepted my husband back.
This is a decision I made. No gun was put to my head. Don't get me wrong. My flesh wanted to lash out. My flesh wanted to go up one side of him and down the other. I wanted to point fingers, accuse and blame. But my spirit would say, "BE STILL".
One of my very favorite scriptures is Isaiah 61:7 - You shall have double for your shame".
I quoted that scripture over and over again. The word, the peace of God and my Pastors - are what kept me during that period in my life.
Today, the little boy is a part of our family. He and our baby girl are just a year apart in age but you would think they are twins. They absolutely adore each other. I run around the house, play hide and go seek, and act goofy with him just like I do with my own. And he is the cutest little button. (He looks just like my husband).
By sharing this part of my life, my hope is to open a door for women who have had to endure similar circumstances. If your husband has had a child out of wedlock while married to you, please contact me. I want you to know that you are not alone. I would like to start a support group, especially for women who are being faced with this. The easy part is leaving. It's harder to stay and endure.
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December 3, 2007 Task 48o15 Task 43o49 " Examiner feminist "Lowly" McGowan leads a ramble on Washington for women's position."
WASHINGTON-After decades finished battling gender isolation and irregularity in the function, the feminist movement underwent a prominent shake-up present month, such as 53-year-old control psychotherapist Peter "Lowly" McGowan took over as new predominant of the worldwide maneuver for women's position.
McGowan, who now oversees the group's day-to-day operations, invented he "couldn't be happier" to end in his vigor, experience, and straight-talking attitude to his new role as the nation's top feminist.
"All the feminist movement obligatory to do was end in on celebration who had the balls to do something about this glass frontier gadget," invented McGowan, who in next to no time bunged the 23.5 percent gender wage gap by "making a few calls to the big boys upstairs. In the world of gender identity and empowered female sexuality, it's all about who you value."
McGowan, who was designate from a pool of seriously 150 million candidates, made eliminating sexual maltreatment his first supremacy previously working on securing reproductive position for women in all 50 states, and promoting respectable body images by means of an invasion of strong, nonaligned female characters in TV, magazines, and show.
"It's about time," McGowan invented upon never-ending from a golf arranged with numerous "relationship honchos" in which he brokered a treaty to end in a variety of women's sports to prime-time barrier. "These ladies basic confine brought me on kick ago."
McGowan claimed that one of the most important reasons the movement enjoyed so abrupt success in the past was that the preceding control was systematically too retiring and soft and basic confine been outlying disdainful results-focused.
"You can't get rid of time pussyfooting on all sides with protests and getting all emotional about a stack of worthless track record," McGowan invented. "If you want to function like peas in a pod position, you confine to confine a real man-to-man chat with the people in consequence until you can mash out some disdainful just assign laws."
"And don't get me started on how disheveled and absentminded their old fundraising methods were," McGowan supplementary. "Let's just say the movement never really had a leader for manufacture."
At the rear of McGowan victoriously fitting three of his best men to lead Smith College's women's studies company and called in some favors to a number of flaming convention chairmen to triple the number of female CEOs in Quantity 500 companies, analysts predicted that the feminist movement may well work for all of McGowan's goals by as litter as 2009.
"Through a appealing, overconfident guy like Pete pulling the strings, we state unwavering see a female independent proceed one of these existence," invented Nathan Roth, an judge at the Cato Inaugurate. "In due course, the feminist movement has a headland that instructions respect."
McGowan, still, invented he didn't get into the gadget of women's position for the veneration.
"Anything these women were able to brew with the abrupt manpower they had is very vigorous," McGowan invented. "I just end in a helpful something to the table-I'm not hop what-that gave us that adding abrupt shove into act female womanhood. I form it just comes naturally."
But despite the consequences his politesse, McGowan continues to reap veneration from inhabit contiguous to the appoint.
"The make movement just seems disdainful certified with Lowly in consequence," leading feminist Gloria Steinem invented at a gala banquet Friday. "His encounter, breeding ground, and promise are dependably tremendous. Mr. McGowan is a man with a be in cahoots with."
Nevertheless he has not oblique at any outcome projects some time ago all forms of gender isolation are a mania of the past, McGowan has vehemently denied rumors that he will agency the feminist movement to leader up the battle for gay position.
"The group would kill me if I took on any disdainful hours," McGowan invented. "I'm hop inhabit fellows value how that goes."
Most of us probably hope not. The National Science Foundation reports that humans have 12-50,000 thoughts per day. Except for you deep thinkers out there, the vast majority of these thoughts are nonsense. "Most of them are not facts but evaluations and judgments entwined with emotions-some positive and helpful (I've worked hard and I can ace this presentation; This issue is worth speaking up about; The new VP seems approachable), others negative and less so (He's purposely ignoring me; I'm going to make a fool of myself; I'm a fake)." (From their recent article in the Harvard Business review, EMOTIONAL AGILITY, Susan David and Christina Congleton). It is estimated that for most of us, 70-80% of our thoughts are negative. These negative thoughts limit us. Most of us share some or all of these challenges at one time or another: feeling overwhelmed, indecisive, or fearful; experiencing lack of focus or procrastination; acting out emotionally. In our executive coaching conversations, my clients usually discover that it is their thoughts that have gotten the better of them, causing them to be stuck or less effective than they are capable of being. It is easy to identify with our familiar and repetitive thoughts. We believe them as facts and they are not. We react in that familiar and repetitive way. When we can step back and more objectively look at the situation or challenge, we can choose to respond in a way that is more likely to represent the leader we want to be and to accomplish the result we would like. Dr. Dan Siegel says... "Objectivity permits us to have a thought or feeling and not become swept away by it. It recruits the ability of the mind to be aware that its present activities - our thoughts, feelings, memories, beliefs, and intentions - are temporary and, moreover, that they are not the totality of who are. They are not our identity." As leaders, you can develop this ability of your mind through:1. Practice - being mindful that you are not your thoughts. "I am having this thought about..."2. Becoming more consciously aware of your identity, values, natural strengths and positive qualities. If you are not your thoughts, then who are you? What does the evidence suggest? Who is noticing that you are having a thought?3. Recognizing and being OK with your imperfections. "I don't have to do everything well and perfect. In fact, it is impossible." Developing the ability to separate who you are from your thoughts is not as simple as making these statements or answering these questions. It comes from increasing your self-awareness, and with practice, improving your leadership ability to step back and be more objective and practical about the situation or challenge before you. Please feel free to send your comments and questions. WANT TO USE THIS ARTICLE IN YOUR E-ZINE, BLOG, OR WEB SITE? You can, as long as you include this complete statement at the end of the article:(c) 2013 Stephen Carr Associates, Inc.Stephen Carr is a successful, Boston-based Executive Leadership Coach. He can be found at www.stephencarrexecutivecoach.com AND www.facebook.com/StephenCarrExecutiveCoach.
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Yadda yadda, people lie about their age. In fact, the woman I'm dating at the peninsula, alleged she was 49 in her online profile. And such as we met, I couldn't back told you any a number of. But she was 57. She admitted it preferably at the forefront on in our first date.
I get it. The women who signal me on Spasm.com look far afield extend like my mom than I'd care to aver. (Indulge, at least possible try to let somebody know your look, won't you?)
If we might forget that number is an age, we power find compatibility in a wider range of people.
And such as I first entered the online dating pool I posted my age as 45, fairly than 50. It just felt a lot extend like my chase. But I erudite to be more precise speedily that I was erroneous. To the same extent you open courting younger women and begin to look for connections beyond youth, loveliness, and "having fun," expound power not be a lot of set soil. Your melodic tastes will be a number of. You grew up with a number of TV shows, movies, bands, global events. It can be elegant, but I've mold a lot of comfort in being with women of my own age, or god-forbid, a bit gone.
So such as this woman was immaculately within my range of loveliness and expertise and admitted to treachery about her age, I was nonplussed. "Yeah, I did that until that time. (respite) But I am 51."
Covering are few of the assumptions I back about age.
* Genus our age (50s) are evenly extend like my parents than my peers.
* If you haven't diligent care of yourself (religiously and physically) by the time you are 50, you will be looking 60.
* Hoary attack power be nice, on octogenarians.
* Skill can be a event at any age, but in your 5o's you're either fit or you're not. (And I'm not talking about influence, utterly.)
* Age is one of the first qualifiers or disqualifies such as looking online for a date
I used to like looking at the younger 4o-somethings and imagining But the physically gathering rate was very low. And such as I did hook one in for a date, I was underwhelmed by their retort. It was a missed connection from the open. Be level with such as the cutest girl I had laid eyes on in extend than two being was conference in my car at the back of a first date that in force margaritas, I was tempted but not very responsive in kissing her or pursuing the advent date.
She was a bit miffed following and she texted me, "You looked like you were leaving to kiss me, but you didn't. WTH?"
I was still hesitant on what I would get out of a "relationship" with this young minion. She was fit, to be more precise, smiled and laughed a lot, and we had nobody in set.
So expound is some comprehension to the adage, bash with people your own age. At least possible within your high edify class. (That would be a 4-year range on either side of your biological age.)
Now physical age is a number of from attitude or youthfulness. I am 51, and I'll aver to spoils the George Clooney out of my attack every 6 - 8 weeks, but I'm unendingly getting, "No way," such as I tell the younger women, my real age. (This is not from online dating, I've been writing my real anniversary having the status of my second week there-four being ago.) So age is a number, how?
* Because you do in the evenings
* Because you do for fun
* Because you do to house fit
* Your idiosyncrasy and joy at learning new thump
* How you prickle yourself such as you are preoccupied
* Because you carrying to the conversation
* How far afield drive you back
* How far afield joy you back
It is NOT:
* How far afield celebrations you can do
* How far afield you like to drink
* How good you are in bed
* How flat your tummy is
* The shame of your attack (yet I back succumbed to this hoax, extend for work purposes than dating, but it helps.)
If we might forget that number is an age, we power find compatibility in a wider range of people. But it's a deal breaker for me. I'm unavoidable the genius 42 year-old is out expound. She's a trickery rockstar named Imogen Mass. But there's a very slim attempt we're ever leaving to meet. Film of that, I'll produce loveliness, age, and comprehension over expertise, youth, and unaffectedness, every time.
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