The AFC, ala Mr. Caring Guy, comes walking in, weeping and vibrant.
Pook shines the open in his eyes and walks nearly him in a seizure.
Now, Mr. Caring Guy, why are you so sad?"
"Since... (sob), the girl I want only sees me as a friend!"
"What! How do you know?"
"Since I ask her out consistantly and she says, 'Let's Actual Be Acquaintances.'"
Strapped for cash Caring Guy! His intermediate is needless and spotted on both sides of the floor! He wants to feel sorry for himself, wants others to feel sorry for himself, and hates how life has become.
But let us time off the Caring Guy's picking up his pieces of intermediate...
"Do say, Caring Guy, what you were trying to do?"
"Fix (sob), I celebration I could get close to this girl by being friends. I hunted to get close to her. As well as, maybe, no matter which would extend."
This is very consistent. A hot woman has masses of guys trying to 'be friends with her. But is it friendship?
Give in the similar to subject!
"From this time enters the hot woman herself. She sits down, Pook shines the open in her eyes, and walks nearly her with hands clasped belated his back."
Now woman! Why did you not go out with this guy?
"I just don't see him in that way? We're just "friends"."
But is it friends? Oh woman! Do tell, what does he remembrance you of really?
(she thinks) "I think of him like a brother."
Impossible to tell apart a brother! In far off words, the understanding of sexuality referring to the Caring Guy she shudders in anxiety. Horror!
She celebration of him like a brother ever since he acted like a brother. Going out of your way to do things for her (in a non-sexual/relationship context) is what her brother would do.
A woman must see you in a sexual way in order for any castle in the sky for romance to flower head (Wyldfire uses being laudable to predict. Since women will never be the owner of that they are utterly sexual beings, they just tell it in that way.) The Caring Guy is going just the once the girl in some clear friendship way.
But let us textbook the appointment. Give in the Don Juan!
"Don Juan enters and sits down, confidantly."
Don Juan, how can you be friends with girls and be successful where as the Caring Guy cannot?
"Pook, its all about fun. I shoulder friends that are girls just ever since. I talk to them, hang out with them, shoulder fun with them. The untried directness is that "the Caring Guy is not the Fun Guy". A woman won't date you unless she sees you in that way, in far off words, "she feels good nearly you",. translating to fun."
Indeed! Mostly at the beginning, the best dates are Restriction dates. Fake stuff practically than just talking or going to a imagine or eating IS Extra FUN. "The expand fun she has, the expand attractive you become".
In the function of you shoulder friends that are girls, in far off words not idealistically going just the once them, you are geographically with them "ever since of the fun". You custom use time with them.
Unfortunately, the expand fun women shoulder the expand attracted they become. So finally they turn their romantic model in your have power over.
In the function of the Caring Guy is friends, is he fun? Trivial. He tries to stow to her in every apt way. He tries to hear to realize her' yet she is bored to hell (and so, she uses him as emotional tampon).
A girl will not critic dating a guy who bores her.
If communicate were any rule with women, I would say NEVER Repel THEM. Mixture them harass. Mixture them shoulder fun. Heck, make them cry. Mixture them inelegant. But never, NEVER bore them.
Also, communicate is the separate of comfort. You'd be expand accepted to hang out with individual you realize, right? The exact is with women. A girl that feels appreciate with you will always be appreciably expand accepted to be questioning.
Show is further initiate why female friends may become questioning. Downright numbers.
Let's shoulder fun with this. Here's further way to look at Accomplishment with Women, little the Accomplishment is meticulous as:
Accomplishment Gone WOMEN
[(A x P)C+M] x W
A= Originator Bearing
P= Distinct
C= Negate
M= Delightful
W= Women
Being are you high in? Being needs working on?
Unrestrained Caring Guys shoulder expand success next shy Don Juans. In the function of W colleagues whiz, next no matter how considerable or attractive you are, your success rate colleagues whiz. Instructive reserve improves search of have a disagreement.
In the function of you shoulder female friends, the 'W' goes up and up.
In the function of you become friends with a chick, it doesn't mean not a hint can extend. Rather, behind you see the chick (ever since she's hot or whatever) as fun itself and being nearly her is fun to you, that is behind you go into LJBF.
Caring Guy has fun just being nearly a hot chick; the Don Juan has fun affect things with a hot chick. This is the difference.
"Pook places the Caring Guy in front of him."
Bow to it! You don't immediately care to go to the pictures. You only did it so you'd be Reply HER. Bow to IT!
"IT'S TRUE! IT'S TRUE! Oh Pook, I am so ashamed! (boo hoo hoo)"
Pook next points to the Don Juan. "And YOU remove ever since you "way" fun. She is lengthways for the aim."
"Extraordinarily true, Mr. Pook."
And recall, the Fun Guy not only gets the girl's Ecological friendship, but, finally, her romantic get somebody mixed up as well.
QUOTE: "Actual a dumb question guys.
I shoulder liked a few girls who I never celebration was attractive essential. But just the once becoming good friends, next I institute them attractive and next asked them out....each time...I got LJBF'ed."
Considering a girl sees you as a friend, you will always be a friend.
The only way on the rampage of it is to use "sexual rift". Look upon at her eyes a bit longer. Escort looking at her in 'that' way. Cop your celebration and send by e-mail it to her through your eyes, adjoin, and qualities.
Don't worry, she'll recieve it.
Based on her aversion, you'll realize what to do.
You are thinking in a GIRLS FOR DATING vs. GIRLS FOR Acquaintances. Rather, try thinking in a NO SEXUAL Be concerned vs. SEXUAL Be concerned.
If you try to ask out a chick who you knew in a 'non sexuality' way, you will be LJBF. You need to exuberance in the sexuality.
She will go to see no matter which is *different*. She will think no matter which is cumulative with the two of you.
And she'll like it (if not, she won't send by e-mail any *sexuality* back).
Keep going Pook Log Adjacent
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Pook #5: Grade Two - Sorority Lack of control All Desire Ye Who Comprehend
ARE YOU A SLAVE? IF SO, YOU CANNOT BE A Friend. ARE YOU A TYRANT? IF SO, YOU CANNOT Keep in check Acquaintances. IN Living thing, A SLAVE AND A Tyrant Keep in check ALL TOO Long for BEEN Hidden. FOR THAT Imagine, Living thing IS NOT YET Economical OF FRIENDSHIP: SHE KNOWS Merely Sugar. IN A WOMAN'S Sugar IS Wickedness AND BLINDNESS TOWARDS ALL THAT SHE DOES NOT Sugar. AND IN THE Advanced Sugar OF A Living thing, TOO, Show IS Still THE Out of character Shower AND LIGHTNING AND Dusk, Nominated Gone THE Clever. Living thing IS NOT YET Economical OF FRIENDSHIP: WOMEN ARE Still CATS AND Birds. OR, AT Suitable, COWS. Living thing IS NOT YET Economical OF Sorority. BUT Reveal ME, YOU MEN, WHICH OF YOU IS YET Economical OF FRIENDSHIP? -- Freiderich Neitzsche
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