Article by Christie Collinsworth
Dating is not an easy game to play. It is not usually nice for nice guys. It's harsh and it can feel like it just chews you up and spits you out. And that can wreak havoc on your self esteem. If you are struggling when it comes to dating, then it's time for you to wise up and discover what the dating game is really all about.
It's not your fault if you were thinking that the key to getting women was to be the nice guy. That's what they want you to believe because it sounds like the way it is supposed to go. But, human behavior is what it is, and the way it's supposed to go - isn't always the way that it really goes.
We all know that when it comes to dating the bad boys are going to get the girls. It was designed that way. You have to be realistic about this and not try to sanitize the reality of it all. If you can do this, then you can put yourself on the right path to get women attracted to you.
Here's some dating advice for struggling men:
1) If it is going to be you time now, then you have to be aggressive.
Of course, there is such a thing as being too aggressive, but you need to have some aggression in the way that you go after women. Not in a bad way, but in the way that you actually make a move and not just sit back and wish that you had. This is what most common men do. They think about what it would be like to make the move. They don't actually make the move that they need to make.
2) You cannot fall in love at first sight.
This is another plight of the common man when it comes to dating. They fall in love too quickly. Maybe it is because you just want a girlfriend so badly. Maybe it is because you are just really that vulnerable. Whatever it is, you need to block and control it. Otherwise you are going to get hurt and miss out on the women that want you.
3) You've got to be ready to talk to women.
Get scared, that's okay. Just go through with it, even so you feel that way. If you are really going to stop struggling with women, then talking is the one skill that you need to pick up. Without it, don't expect to do well at all with women.
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