Dating Tips For Women You Dont Have To Settle For Second Best

One of the issues that has come up as I have gotten a little bit older, is seeing a lot of my friends settle for whatever guy they can get instead of really setting their sights a little bit higher. There are plenty of good men out there, so this idea that you have to settle for whoever happens to be around at a certain age isn't one that you have to accept if you don't want to. Besides, I have had the experience of seeing women that I knew get married at 22 and then divorced just a couple of years later. If you don't want to have that kind of an experience, then you shouldn't allow yourself to settle just because you reach a certain age and feel the pressure of having to be in a relationship with a guy.

Here are some tips that can help make it so that you don't have to settle for just any guy who comes along:

1. The more places that you go out to meet men, the more likely it is that you are going to meet one who seems to be a perfect match for you.

One thing that really leads to settling is when you don't really go out looking for good guys to date. Then, when you do meet one, you feel like you have to give him a chance because you don't know when the next one will come along. Really, if you go out and try to meet enough men, you'll know that there are plenty out there and you won't be so inclined to end up with the next one that comes along. You'll be more likely to wait for the RIGHT one.

2. When you know what you are really looking for in a guy, you'll also be less likely to settle.

Knowing what you really, really want in a guy is important. A lot of women don't really know what they are actually looking for. You have to give yourself a good idea of what kind of man you really want to be able to attract. When you do know what you are looking for, you are a lot more likely to actually find it.

Just because you might feel like it is hard right now to meet the right guy, it doesn't have to stay that way. You can end up attracting the right one, so you shouldn't feel like you have to settle for someone who really might not be right for you.

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