Get Confident
According to research, the least attractive characteristic that men can posses is lack of confidence. Women don't like a guy who's not confident. Now, confidence alone is not going to do it for you, but if you have confidence you'll be head and shoulders above most other guys.
How do you get confidence? Well, what you need to do is learn how to be confident. It's a matter of trial and error and practice. There are courses out there that can really show you how to be confident but if you practice at home you may be able to do just as well. What you should do is find men who are confident (you can even find some men in movies) and study how they behave. Study their characteristics. You'll see that they smile a lot, look people in the eyes, stand up straight, and don't doubt themselves. Practice this and you'll find that you can have this type of confidence too. Even if you have to fake it to make it at first. Just act confident and it will soon follow that you will ACTUALLY have confidence.
GET CLEANED UP
How do you look? What do your clothes look like? What about your hair? How do you smell? These are all things that women will judge you on. You could be the most confident guy on earth but if you look like you just rolled out of a garbage can then it won't matter.
First you should take a nice long, hot shower and shave. Use some after shave or cologne that smells good (but don't overdo it-a little bit goes a long way). Get your hair cut by a professional stylist. Don't go to the chain hair cut place where they get you in and out in 5 minutes. You need a trained professional. It may cost more but it WILL be worth it.
Get a men's magazine and look at the styles of clothing that the men are wearing. That's what is in style and that's what you need to do. If you don't have money you can still go to a local second hand store and find some cool stuff.
LOOK AT YOUR LIFE
Do you live in the basement of your grandma's house? If so, you may want to reconsider your lot in life. Maybe it's time to get a better job to make some more money so you can get a better place, better clothes, and a nice car. These things can make you VERY attractive to women. If you don't have experience or skill simply go back to school. You can even do it online now.
Need to pracite what you'd just learned? Find your match on a free dating site.
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