Other Family And Relationships Open Question Bummed Out Confused Annoyed

i guess this is just me ' thinking out loud'..... hoping for some clarity... from somewhere...... in a nut shell.......im that girl that is always a guys girl friend.... never girlfriend........close to 30 years old, ive been going through this as long as i can remember...... it seems like EVERY time i find a REAL connection with a guy, attraction, chemistry, all the things i look for, he pulls the friends card...... quite frankly i am SICK AND TIRED and always being his confidant, his best friend, his " youre the one person i can always be myself with, and be honest with, and enjoy every moment with........ but were friends......."it makes the world feel like a lonely place somedays.i take good care of myself, im not sloppy, have good hygiene, can confidentially say i am an attractive woman with a lot going for her. even my guy friends ( and girl) have said more than enough times " whats a girl like you doing always on her own" ARG! ...........im sick of being everyones friend..... itd be nice to be held and wanted as more.....any ideas as to what im doing wrong? i just dont get it..... i see flighty bimbo annoying chics fly threw guys by the dozen and even though many guys are attracted to me, we always get trapped in the friend zone...

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