Abusive Women

The stereotype about cases of abuse between men and women holds that men are generally the abusers, and women almost always the victims. This is far from the truth. While it is true that women are much less likely to have the strength to physically abuse their boyfriends, husbands, family members, etc - though this certainly "does" happen - emotionally or even sexually abusive women are, unfortunately, quite common.

Abusive women do not necessarily have to be physically abusive, but can be emotionally abusive.

ABUSIVE WOMEN, LIKE ABUSIVE MEN, ACT BECAUSE OF A NEED TO CONTROL THEIR ENVIRONMENT, AND TO AVOID RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY UNHAPPINESS OR LACK OF SUCCESS IN THEIR OWN LIVES.

Abusive actions are, simultaneously, an attempt to assert power or dominance "and" to shirk responsibility. Abusive women can cause irreparable harm to their victims and, unfortunately, seem to be able to get away with it much more easily than men can.

HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY AN ABUSIVE WOMAN?

One who physically abuses is easy to spot. However, women who emotionally and sexually abuse their husbands, friends, or family members are much harder to notice because they are such good manipulators that they actually make themselves out to seem like victims in almost every situation. The defining characteristic of every abusive woman is that she will always find ways to make it seem like everyone around them is "incredibly lucky "to have her, and that they are barely worthy enough for her. She will threaten to leave her husband, to withhold sex from him, or even to take his money (and children, if he has them with her). She takes a twisted satisfaction from his shame, guilt, and even public humiliation. If her victims are family members or her children, an abusive woman will constantly make them feel like they are failures.

An abusive woman is, in short, a bully. She physically or, more likely, emotionally harasses her victims, shames and humiliates them, in order to compensate for her own insecurities. The best thing to do when you come across one, or if you realize that you might be married or closely connected to one, is to distance yourself from her. The likelihood that she will change if you ask her to is close to zero; she will instead become enraged at you and probably blame you for everything you have accused her of.

HELP, FOR HER, WILL ONLY COME FROM SELF-REFLECTION, SOMETHING BEFORE WHICH SHE MUST TRULY "LOSE" SOMETHING.

If you see an abusive woman act against helpless victims such as children, try to help in any way, either by providing some life guidance and self esteem boosts to the children or notifying authorities. They can cause irreparable harm and ruin the lives of these children forever.

Distancing yourself from an abusive woman can be incredibly hard, and you can pay a steep price. They tend to be incredibly could at painting themselves as victims, and if you leave them they will do everything they can to ruin your life and reputation. You may lose money, custody over children, friends and much more. However, you can always rebuild your life and find happiness on your own; with an abusive woman you will be bullied for the rest of your life.