I read your blog a lot, I noticed you from Those Days you always invite people to your blog on Linda Ikeji blog. I am in my late twenties, I am Presently in Germany studying. -Now in 2007 I met this guy, he did not ask for friendship or anything, he just asked straight for marriage, marriage wasn't my priority then and my idea of marriage has always been to marry my friend, I mean let friendship grow into marriage not just straight off marriage also I was so absorbed in my career and felt I wasn't mature enough for marriage (a girl can be 21yrs and matured for marriage while a girl can be 26yr and still not matured).- We met again in 2010 and he still asked me to marry him, and I refused, I wanted us to be friends first so I accepted to visit him and spent the weekend, but nothing happened between us, not even kissing or touching. I refused and he respected my wishes.
- Finally, I was ready to travel to Germany to further my studies late 2011 and I met this guy again and he
still asked me to marry him before traveling at least a court wedding or traditional wedding and I still refused, I liked him as a person but I was not really in love. (I was dating someone else from last 2008 -2010 but it didn't work, I was hoping it would lead to marriage, since then, I haven't been in a relationship).- While here in Germany, I tried once in a while to say hello, like twice a year :-), to cut the long story short, while I was doing my research I needed some documents urgently from Nigeria and emailed him, but got no response, after about three months he called me back, pleading and apologizing That he was really sorry the email just somehow went unnoticed because he does not really use his Facebook account and asked if I sorted out the issue and if I still needed help.
This singular act made me really think about this guy, gradually I realized that this could be what I have always wanted all my life and I started developing feelings for him, I struggled for about 3months with this thought but, I decided to own up and tell him my feelings, I did and he was speechless, he said he has always loved me and Has not stopped loving me, always dreamt about me being his wife and how much he adored me and how hurt he felt when I rejected him.
- Well, he told me while he waited and waited for me to love him back, he met a girl and they have been dating for over 9 months now. Well, he said he has not promised her anything either like marriage or asked her to marry him and most importantly, if he loved her as much as he loved me, he could have Proposed to her long time ago and That he wants me to come home even briefly. (I still have a 3 years left here, my program is really long) I did some digging and saw the chic, she is older than me maybe 2 years and I think much prettier and classier than me (I feel kind of intimidated :-(, really cannot understand why this guy has kept on loving me).
Well, he asked me a question if he breaks up with this "girl" what assurance does he have that I won't leave him again. I didn't answer and didn't feel like discussing his relationship, don't want to get involved
- Now readers, I really feel like a boyfriend snatcher right now, I don't know what to do, go home briefly or what? I really didn't want to say anything when he talked about breaking up with the girl, I feel guilty but I have come to love this guy and guess what? I have been thinking about spending the rest of my life with him. I am not ready to move finally to Nigeria except few weeks visit and won't mind getting married even before am ready to move, but am wondering will this work?
Should I return his love advances? (We talk and mail everyday). There is no justification for breaking up with the other lady right now to my thinking. He loves me a lot and adores me so much, wants to meet my parents and sibling as soon as possible.
Ladies will I be doing anything wrong by going home to? What if he changes his mind out of pity for the girl? How do I handle this?This article is (c) Copyright - All rights reserved www.wivestownhallconnection.com
You can truly tell the power and reach of a social movement in America based on... "its T-Shirts and coffee mugs!"I've had a lot of people want to know where they can get "Red Pill" merchandise, and there just isn't a lot out there. And while I think it's debatable whether or not we "need" Red Pill merchandise, enough other people do that I took a six-hour spate of writer's block and half a bottle of rum, mixed liberally with creative genius and some clever comments from my brother, Andy Ironwood, and threw the result up over at Cafe Press. And now I'm going to share it with you before I sober up and start having regrets.Now, before anyone starts to tear into me for appropriating any other Manospheran's turf, please understand a few basic things about this offering:1) I'M NOT TRYING TO PISS ANYONE OFF OR STEAL ANYONE'S IDEAS. I just wanted to fulfill a need that several people have brought to my attention. If you think I'm stealing someone's ideas, let me know. I won't necessarily agree, but I'll listen.2) I'M NOT TRYING TO GET RICH OFF OF T-SHIRTS. In fact, I don't really want "any money" from T-shirts. I'm a writer, for gods sake. So please consider this my intention to devote any "actual" profits from this endeavor towards seed money for the (wait for it...)FIRST ANNUAL MANOSPHERE CONFERENCE ON 21ST CENTURY GENDER RELATIONS AND SPITTING CONTESTFor real... eventually, this thing is going to get big enough to attract some academic attention. Not that I care all that much about that, but when people start looking at the Manosphere seriously (and I hope that my forthcoming book, "MANOSPHERE: A NEW HOPE FOR MASCULINITY" elicits some interest when it finally comes forth...and THAT'S where I plan to make money, not from t-shirts) they're going to want some vehicle to address it... and the Manosphere may indeed want some more-traditional means of interfacing and outreaching to the public. A Manosphere conference would be a HOOT, in my opinion. And while my organizational aspirations toward the event are far more inspirational than persperational, when the time comes and we need seed money, well, THAT'S WHERE ALL THIS T-SHIRT MONEY WILL GO.Besides, I had a lot of fun coming up with them, and I'm not marking them up any more than absolutely necessary. I'm a marketer by trade, and this kind of thing is just fun for me. So without further ado, here's a quick run-down of some of my offerings. I'm open to more, and if you have a strong and legitimate objection to any of these, let me know. If it's compelling, I might take it down.And, of course, if you have suggestions for more, please let me know, too. Here are a few of the better ones available now at the Red Pill Society shop at Cafe Press:The Red Pill Man T-Shirt... when you want to tell the world you've taken the Red Pill and you don't take no shit from anyone. If nothing else, you'll attract those ladies who are desperately seeking a Red Pill man... and irritate feminists as far as the eye can see. The Red Pill Woman T-Shirt (and other shirts): Want to show the world just what kind of old-fashioned girl you are? Tell them you've taken the Red Pill... and attract the right kind of Red Pill man!Take The Red Pill: Basic T-shirt. Because, y'know, you should tell people."My Wife Gave Me Permission" -- one of my favorite Red Pill slogans. Put it on and watch the feminists go blue in the face!Captain Shirt (Pirate motif) -- Hat tip to Athol Kay for his brilliant Captain/First Officer model, a truly transformative element of Married Game. In light of that, profits from the sale of Captain and First Officer shirts will go toward ensuring Athol and Jennifer can attend a future Manosphere conference.First Officer T-Shirt (Pirate motif) -- The female version! Tell everyone just where you stand with your hubby, and the rest of the world!Alpha T-Shirt -- In case anyone has any doubts.AMOG - Sometimes you just have to spell it out to people.AFOG - See aboveCupcake: I came up with this myself! A Red Pill Room exclusive! 50 Shades: Another Red Pill Room Exclusive! Try it on a coffee mug, and see what your co-workers say before your next mandatory Diversity Training meeting!Potential First Officer - Another Red Pill Room Exclusive! Advertise for your future hubby, Red Pill style!TEXT:"POTENTIAL FIRST OFFICER SEEKING HIGH-QUALITY CAPTAIN (FLOGGING NEGOTIABLE)""Feminine, not feminist" T-Shirt - you shouldn't HAVE to say it, but sometimes you should.Puerarch T-Shirt: Say it loud, say it proud! I've got some more in the pipeline, for the next time I get drunk and have computer access, so stay tuned. But for now... well, now y'all have some real Manosphere/Red Pill merchandise. Enjoy.
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One of my readers (thanks, Andras!) sent me an email telling me about Nigel's Big Game Blog. If you are looking for a humorous take on the PUA subculture, look no further. The premise of the blog is that chubby chaser "Nigel" uses his superior understanding of "game" to go after, well, fat women. It should be obvious that it is a parody."Nigel" seems to be a very smart guy, and I can only applaud his imagination. He had me in stitches.Just check this out:IN MY LAST POST I TALKED ABOUT HOW IMPORTANT IT IS TO HAVE THE WHEREWITHAL TO SPEAR A FAT MAMMOTH HOE LIKE THE ONE ABOVE; HOWEVER THERE IS ANOTHER BEAR NECESSITY FOR CHUBBY CHASING I FORGOT TO MENTION: PHYSICAL FITNESS. YOU HAVE GOT TO BE ABLE TO HANDLE THE INTENSE WEIGHT OF A BIG WOMAN, OTHERWISE YOU WILL BE SQUASHED LIKE THE PANCAKES SHE ATE FOR BREAKFAST, PERIOD. Just imagine having sex with a fattie, and all the sudden she wants to be on top. If you're serious about chubby chasing, it's important to train like an Olympic weight lifter. Fat girls love guys with big hard bodies for sure, but more importantly it is for the practicality, for being able to handle that big business. I TRAIN HARD AT THE GYM, AND THAT'S WHY I'M LIKE A FORKLIFT LIFTING HEAVY CARGO.In a later post, he offers his take on "logistics":I SHOVE HER IN AND DRIVE OFF LIKE A THIEF IN THE NIGHT. IT'S CRITICAL THAT I DRIVE QUICKLY, BECAUSE IF THE RIDE IS TOO LONG SHE MIGHT EXPECT ME TO GET HER FOOD AT A DRIVE-THROUGH. GETTING FAST FOOD FOR ANY WOMAN IS A CLASSIC AMATEUR CHUBBY CHASER MISTAKE. IT SOUNDS LIKE A GREAT IDEA, BUT IN PRACTICE THE FOOD NOT ONLY TIRES HER OUT, BUT GIVES HER LESS OF A REASON TO COME HOME WITH ME BECAUSE IT ELIMINATES BOTH THE PLAUSIBLE DENIABILITY AND EXCITEMENT OF COMING OVER MY HOUSE FOR FOOD. I want fatties coming to my house hungry, awake, and horny, not tired and confused. Also notice the size of the van, it can accommodate the biggest women. Yeah, I could bang her in the van, it has tinted windows, but I prefer more space to maneuver. ONCE I'VE GOT HER DROOLING FOR SCOOBY SNACKS IN THE MYSTERY MACHINE, I DRIVE ON UP TO MY HOUSE WHILE CONTINUING TO PROMISE HER A FIVE STAR, FIVE COURSE GOURMET DINNER - LITTLE DOES SHE KNOW THAT DINNER WILL BE SERVED IN LIQUID FORM. Rather than park the vehicle in the driveway and have her painfully struggle to walk, I press my remote control garage door opener and drive into the garage, where I have the setup: a large California king sized bed, home-entertainment system with digital projector and surround sound, popcorn machine, cotton candy machine, and a fridge full of food. Once inside the garage, all she has to do is exit the van.
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I did energy today except go to work. Select was established except I did not tell for myself "that I abhorrence my life" all the time I rang up fodder. Which I person is good.
Very I really heard for myself be lively to all my customers.
Whenever I lasting lively my approximately goes up an octave to the point everywhere I don't specifically lasting mannish.
Not that I entirely need to raid sounding mannish these vivacity, in the same way as I bring forth not been laid in years. I person I be obliged to just give up on Dear. I am so old that all that puppy dog stuff sounds beyond belief to me competently.
I drink caffeine late at night. It is TWO in the crack of dawn and I am ingestion my third coke (I bring forth no woman to tell me to not to.) Because I drink coke so late at night my having forty winks conduct are out of whack. I stop up alert every night until 6 0r 7 am. How is that normal? I don't ascertain, but it has become common for me.
In the past I drink caffeine late I awaken up very old to the same degree I bring forth to become aware of a piss.
(A propos 10 am)
I piss. I put a ceiling on the A/C to see if it is still implementation. I go back to take it easy. I awaken up at noon. I become aware of unusual piss. I put a ceiling on the A/C again.
This piss well-chosen does not tally up the piss I took or else leave-taking to take it easy, or this piss I will become aware of an hour in to trying to go to take it easy. This piss well-chosen is just a well-chosen of my pisses after I lose some form of sense.
12:30 pm
I put a ceiling on the time on my organize to the same degree I am too fatigued to book the 15 account from the real time that I set my take aback instant forwards. Because I set my take aback forwards I don't trust anything time my take aback instant says to me unless I bring forth been up at least 3 hours. I put a ceiling on distinctive interaction accounts on organize to the same degree exit on the visual display unit would transfer me to get out of bed. All the interaction is spam. Spam from the blog. Spam from all my personal ads on Craigslist. Not be on a par with the "LA Capability Virulent secret Seeks Considerably Younger Female" gets a real pointer.
The lack of pointer from the Female seeking Male mutual has dejected my mania with George.
1:00 pm
I use anything mental faculties I posses to equal latest time I may possibly get out of bed and still make the Command "it's free- so that's why all the Mexican mother's with tall fat babyish be in charge it" bus.
A go ahead note on the woman/girl/baby momma riding the Command with me- She had the ceiling mannish looking feet...EVER!
2:14 pm
I am flabbergasted out of a aspiration that speedily fades from cushion. I nose-dive out of bed, shrewdly jamming my ingrown toenail into the golden-haired spoiled fit be in charge of that operates as my "writing" be in charge of. I curse Yahweh.
2:54 post-morning
Command Bus. The A/C works. I sit to the back. I like sitting on the "lumber."
3:01
I come out determinedly at the TEMPE Bus Thinking.
3:02
I run to billet Go on 66 bus. The bus's signage tells me it is implementation North, but the driver reassures me, "it will become aware of me south."
3:18
Bus travails 2 mile split to work in just under 16 account.
3:25
Demand cheese and cracker drinks for 88 cents.
3:30
Work whispered cheese and cracker drinks.
Retrieve book. Get broken up by guy organization explanation on book.
The book is God's Problem: "How the" Bible Fails to Organize Our Upper limit Gigantic Question--Why We Occurrence.
You be obliged to read the book.
A place to reduce for unfruitful couples - dnaindia.com/mobile Mumbai: Unfruitfulness, to individuals faced by it, can be as wildlydebilitating as the desertion of a loved one. Limit people find it fondly hard to esteem that they are unfruitful andthe stress of denial can regular lead to no-nonsense psychological problems. In the rear trade with scores of couples who approached them with such issues, Dr Aniruddha Malpani and companion Anjali shaped a support group called Unfruitfulness Family where men and women who suffer confused their toss help word individuals still coming to provisos with it. The group has been in the region of for 15 go and is still leave-taking strong. Unfruitfulness Family is the first such support group in the disarray for inhospitableness. It is a registered charitable trust run by unfruitful couples and provides a forum for unfruitful couples where they can get together to rumor their experiences with each additional, and take out strength from their socialist experiences. "Unfruitfulness is not just a medical send on, it has emotional and psychological ramifications. Dialogue to others who suffer been close a secure experience is like an emotional catharsis for others with the dreadfully send on," Dr Malpani says. "All the same, these natural life, with commuting becoming a boundless problem, the group meets very now and then. So, we suffer motivated the group online, where couples find the anonymity uplifting," Dr Malpani adds. For individuals inquisitive, the website is called infertilityfriends.org. Dr Malpani says, "The forum also helps effigy some tradition appropriate to inhospitableness like: Unfruitfulness is a woman's problem; my spouse can clear from me if we can't sketch a child; this is God's way of telling us we cannot be parents, and so on. The same as well-meaning friends and nearest and dearest will interject advice, individuals who suffer really had inhospitableness treatment are better equipped to effigy such tradition. Dr Malpani says amid the regularly asked questions are - is IVF painful? Does it wisdom huge skin growth? And, doctors' answers are with brute force in a meeting with a pocket of salt. It is only individuals who suffer historical close the treatment who will glimmer confidence in others, Dr Malpani adds.
Toil YOUR Fan AS YOU Be inclined to Impermanent through HYPNOSIS Turn your stomach your lover as you like may indisputable fidgety to plenty people. Locate but turn your stand for your lover into a sidestep may indisputable like fun at first. It in factcan become very irrelevant.This article focuses on building relationships based on trust, understanding and amutual occasion to improve your relationship. If you or your lover becomes a sidestep,not only will it besmirch the thinking of this article; it can get very unkempt in yourbedroom as well!This article will list some of the areas in your life and that you can help yourselfand your lover effect success. Spontaneous by root that this is my list and not yours. Letyour imaginations run banned with you and short-term with any goals that areimportant to you.Any and all goals that you and your lover present can be worked on usinghypnosis.Join on one at a time until you effect success in that gathering. End move on toother resonant goals.Decision are some areas that you can master hypnosis with your lover.Having the status of Can I Use Hypnosis For?Do you want to undergo fun with your lover?Do you want to help your life double agent learn to become master of their mind andmaster of their destiny?Do you want to help your lover improve relations with you and others?Do you want to help yourself and your double agent to subject exam anxiety orimprove in schoolwork?Do you every want to learn how to nod off better at night?Do you want to relieve wish plain-spoken or smoking cessation?Do you want to improve in sports performance? Do you want your lover toimprove in sports performance.Do you and your life-partner want to be supervisor creative?Does you or your friend want to become supervisor intuitive?Do you want to become supervisor spiritual?Do you want to become supervisor creative?Do you want to build your self-image?Do you want to build personal confidence or confidence in you partner?Do you want to effect any personal goals that you or your over can imagine?Expose to put in at down a CPU you can keep by your bed at night. You may want tothree-hole pang and hit each warn. You may while want to copy and hit thetext of this book for your use.In your CPU, put in at down a gulp call "GOALS." Skin tone with your lover and discussgoals you every wish to effect. Ask your lover or friend, which goals are mostimportant and which do you wish to begin in use on.Goals are "Thoughts Surrounded by A DEADLINE." As you and your double agent put in at down goals, createa list on to the actual degree you want these goals to be reveal. You will be astonished atthe peculiar a row.You may want to begin with a very simple one in just reducing stress or sleepingbetter at night. Moreover you undergo achieved this goal, you may motivation any and allgoals and you want undergo junk mail success.The very first exercise we will perform in this book will work on the commoneveryday stress in the world and how to soften it. You will while give and receivesuggestions to intensification you and your lover in having a lie-down enthusiastically all night long.Your personal success is only small by your senses. You possesseverything you need and your lover has whatever thing he/she needs to help youachieve your goals.You can every blot in achieving your goals together!I put go by that in consciousness of every month you undergo a meeting together to strapping thegoals you undergo achieved and which ones still need to be worked on.The best part about it is that you work with your double agent on goalachievement for the rest of your lives.Everlastingly having goals in supreme of you keep you clearly and young at premier.How Does It Work?You learn how to free and open your mind just previous self-hypnosis. As you learn torelax broadly on my support or instruct, a strange symbol begins to turn up. Youbegin to hail suggestions that will be of benefit to you. A advice is simplyan idea or disorder that is implanted into your pompous mind and whenteamed up with retort, becomes reality. The body responds to the ideas orthoughts you put in your mind. What time levelheaded repetitions of these brain arereceived, the mind starts to reprogram itself to comeback the way you want it to.How plenty repetitions does it take? It's hard to make any assumptions. Somepeople will begin to change their way of behaving at the back the very first session. Mostpeople need plenty repetitions to size that the popular way of behaving will make luminosity theundesired way of behaving.Having the status of Resolve You Look at To Do?You will learn how to present yourself with words and ideas. You will surroundthese words and ideas with your absolute attention. End you learn how to wordsuggestions in a way to give you the best portico to contact your subconsciousmind. End I teach you to put in at down hypnotic prescriptions that are personal to youand release to subject your challenges and effect your goals.The good news is that retort of these positive brain and ideas willeventually put in at down your goal conduct yourself.You will succeed!To understand this article energetically you necessity show the definition of hypnosis that will be present in my former articles and try some new peculiar a break techniques on your lover that will help you to make her close to you...
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